grab a cup of coffee…

i was going to blog something inspirational and all that jazz.

course correction…

i went to nestucca junior high girls basketball game yesterday. now this may not seem like anything cool or awe inspiring, and it’s not at all.

but it was great! i have been stuck in a funk for a while as i maneuver through life and my homegirl was like “hey, id love for you to come watch the girls i coach”. so instead of wallowing in my mullygrums, i showed up. and am i ever glad i did!

The energy in that gym was fire. the electricity of the game was insane and i found myself getting lost in the joy of these young girls. their happiness and their disappointment of simply being in the moment was refreshing.

no pretenses and no acting. you know, like people should be but don’t seem to remember how to act anymore?

being single, i meet a lot of men who make themselves into something they think i want in order to keep my company. what they don’t realize is that i do not like fake and it is a gigantic turnoff. i even have some “friends” who i question whether or not they really care or are so lost and away from themselves that they do not know how to act authentic.

i guess what i am trying to say is, be real. be authentic. be quiet when you need to be and be loud when you need to be heard. try all the things and find out who you are inside and what makes you happy.

really happy. and stick to it. don’t compare your life to social media or what the conditioning norm tells you to be. it is a set up for disaster and a life of unhappiness.

as always, mad and reckless love to you - Sea